Dating sites pointless
You survived that, and not only are you better for it – you’re sexier for it. Age and childbearing has allowed you to enjoy your body for all it has to offer. When I met my husband in my mid-twenties, I was still struggling to make my way professionally. When we do have time for boyfriends, we make the very most of it. There is less temptation to piddle away hours waiting on losers to commit just because you’re lonely (you will end up selling your engagement ring anyway with those guys).
Confidence, a full heart, and life experience all equals being a richer, fuller person. My longest friendships were still forming, and I was still figuring out what was most important to me. Women with kids have a whole lot of responsibilities. Time is precious, and efficient moms know that the best way to spend time with a man is truly enjoying a really, really great one.
The desire to be liked and attract women is one of the most significant ways through which men are able to validate their masculinity and sense of self worth. I put myself out there and no woman ever responds to my messages. I wouldn't even care if they just messaged back to say not interested. But you are right don't waste your time or money on online dating. You are right no reason why they can't write and say no thanks. I was once for a month a long time ago on a site and I received 3 messages 2 from obvious scammers and 1 from a guy I didn't click with. Maybe some people are afraid to answer back in case it opens an unwanted dialogue. I think singles clubs, meeting face to face are far better. I put myself out there and no woman ever responds to my messages. I wouldn't even care if they just messaged back to say not interested. To be fair to these women they probably get a hundred messages a day so they can't respond to everybody. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone, either men or women.Usually if I do meet a girl, its always at some obsure moment and usually we'll have been friendsfor a long time before something developes.So I'm not like a guy who scores a date everytime I go out and given the two horrible relationships I have been in, online dating seemed feasible, if just to meet people outside my local area (not too far though).